SEX GETS BETTER WITH AGE chapt 3

now before we move on, i gotta say this man because its the right thing to do. as good as sex feels, please if you are having sex with an unknown partner or your not in a relationship or committed or even if your not sure you want kids, please use a condom. yes i know i sound like a broken record. but you gotta pay attention to this. when having sex many men start out with the condom on. now sometimes these condoms are hella cheap. so damn cheap that they probably got them at barneys corner store where they carry milk, eggs, candy and oh yeah condoms. now these condoms are known to break. now ladies if your not sure when a condom breaks. just look at his face. he is into it , but not really, you are pretty much making all the noises at that point but once that condom tears and he feels just a little sensation, oh he starts purring like a cat, before you know it, he is making more noise than you, don't be mistaken your good but your not that damn good, not with a condom on. he felt you without the condom and then it was on from there. also beware of the pull out pull off method. this is when a guy pulls out pulls the condom off and says i just can't take this anymore "i'm going in!!!!" and so he does. the sex was better wasn't it, but was it worth it. i can tell you from experience that condoms suck! you can't feel a damn thing with them on. and i have tried them all. but it was a must. i was determined to wear it. now that i'm married of course i just depend on the donte method! ha ha i'll never tell.

ok so please wrap it up, seal it up, and put it away because as good as the sex may be, it certainly can have lots of bad consequences along with it, such as unwanted pregancies, which means dead beat baby fathers and mothers. aids which means odds are you won't live long enough to get child support from these dead beat baby mothers and fathers. but once you find that special someone, and have that trust within one another the possibilities are limitless.

ok next chapter people as we look into what makes the sex good for a man, you won't wanna miss this one

SEX GETS BETTER WITH AGE chapt 2

we all love sex , we can at least admit that. sex can be good it can be beautiful and when the two of you are in the moment it can be the most thrilling ride of your life. but why does this thrilling ride become better with age. well think about this as a teen you had sex to get it done and get it over with before you got caught. that was everyones nightmare, getting caught. and we've all been there. it was like being in that movie where they sat you in that chair, shined that bright white light on you and then proceeded to ask you questions like. DONTE WHAT THE HELL WERE YOU THINKING? wait i went to far on that one. but you all get my drift. sex back then was good but it just wasn't great, not until you learned the craft and instead of trying to hurry up you were trying to slow down and of course learn what the hell you were doing along the way. i remember this guy telling me that he caught a cramp having sex and had to stop on account of the pain. i was like what a rookie, dude should have done some stretches first. once your in, your in. the worse thing in the world is to cut a sexual experience short. you want to explore every inch of your partners body. you want to taste everything. you want to be able to give oral sex without losing your breath and going into a coma. you want to take your time and find the spot that makes your partner say your name in russian, french, and italian, plus resite the national anthem backwards. you want to explore sexual positions that you never tried before, not just the normal, i'm on top , she's on top, doggy style i'm done. you gotta be creative. thats what makes sex beautiful and that my friends comes with experience and age. as you get older, you learn more about sex. what turns you on. you learn about passion and you also learn that outside of sex is love. that love for your significant other is what helps make the sex great. i mean come on anyone can have an orgasim in 5 minutes. although i wouldn't reccomend it. I think its crazy to go in not knowing what your doing. a good friend once told me that when everything is clicking on all cylinders, the sex will be the best you ever had. but when you have problems that are unresolved the sex is terrible. question is which side of the fence do you want to be on.

SEX GETS BETTER WITH AGE OR DOES IT chapt 1

as teen ager sex excites you, its something new and fresh and all the other kids were doing it. thats what drew you to it. you felt left out if you didn't participate and of course you dreaded being called that aweful word. "THE VIRGIN". i remember that one. it seemed like if you were one back in the days it was like you were some type of disease or something. little did i know that mostly everyone was back then. sure you had a few that weren't but for the most part the only thing they were hittin were their own bed sheets. i can laugh about it now. but back then it was scary wasn't it. it was exciting to get your first sexual encounter. you really didn't know what the hell you were doing but the more times you did the better you were at it. now way lets be honest. some of you were bad then and your really bad now. but for the most part, sex was good , it was fun. but as we got older sex became more serious. you became more concerned about your sexual partners as well as who they had been with. you certainly didn't want to have any kids, so the condom was always a must, but really was it. most of you did the whole pull out method didn't you. don't deny it.

we went from teenagers that were hot and frisky to young adults that had finally got our right to have a drink legally, which led to more sex. and not always good sex either, but sex never the less. and this is where you found the difference between good sex and bad sex. when the sex was good, you walked away with a smile on your face. but when it was bad, you looked worse than that donkey from winnie the poo. but still sex excited you didn't it.

all of this lead you up to be a full fledged adult with a sexual history some longer than others , which brings me to my most current recent thoughts. does sex get better with age. well in my opinion it does and i'm going there people so if your not ready for this content, i suggest you cuddle up with a nice history book on how to make egg plant.

ok here we go

first of all lets all be honest, good sex depends on the partner that your with. not all sex is the same. everyone has had that bad sexual partner that just wasn't good in bed and you wanted to tell them but you didn't want to hurt their feelings so you just never called them again. its sad too, because you go through everything in the worlfd to finally get some and when you do, its freakin horrible. she didn't smell good, he was to small, he couldn't last five minutes, she tightened up like a hoover vacum cleaner, he wouldn't go down on you, you wouldn't go down on him, which by the way should be part of the freakin application process but we will get into that later. i myself believe it or not have had bad sex. no honestly it wasn't on my end. but the girl was just horrible. i mean she was like a dusty book you just couldn't open. i couldn't believe it because i would have thought that a girl that looked that beautiful, would be good in bed. boy was i wrong. first of all she smelled good up top but not down the bottom talk about mismatch. she certainly didn't know her way around the bedroom and hell she didn't know her way around the bathroom. and it was like going to school. ok step one first get undressed. unfuckinbelievable. and i know we've all been there. and then of course you had the sexual encounter where the girl or guy who talked a good game but when it came down to it they were as lost as the network series. they really didn't know what they were doing. and this completely sucks in my opinion but at the same time this was the growing process of learning about sex. you learned through the years what turned you on and what didn't. this was important for all of our sexual development and i'll explain why next chapter as we look into how we evolved with sex. what made it better. and of course how the relationship makes it all worth it.

THE FOUR WAY TRIANGLE chapt 7

so there they were child hood friends staring adversity in the face. in a serious situation in which you thought that maybey the four of them could have figured a way out. greed took over and now you had one go astray. why was this , what made kim do such terrible things to her friends that she had known just as long as her own family.

now they were really worried. not only did kim run with all the money but she also placed the gun with them so that they would appear guilty. they had no clue on where to start but they knew that the resources they needed, they couldn't find in the netherlands. they had to go back home. and they were afraid of this because what if someone had seen them, what if someone had told. by now it had been 24 hours sense the murder, it was only a matter of time before someone found jasmine in the stairwell. they all agreed that the best thing to do at this point was to return to the united states, and tell the police what happened. they knew what the risks were but at this point they knew that kim was behind everything so they decided to take their chances.

they took the first flight out and landed at philidelphia international aiprort around 6pm. they went directly to the police station near the downtown area. they all held hands as they entered the police station, and they sat down with a detective who and began to tell what happened. as they told the series of events, the detective interrupted them and said that there had been no report of anytype of crime in that area over the past 48 hours. "but this doesn't make sense" said david we were there we saw it all happen. the detective said ok, well lets go back to the stairwell and see what we find. as they arrived at the stairwell, they found that it was clean. there was no blood, no body, and no jasmine. they couldn't undertstand, was this a bad dream! the police officer then escorted them out of the building and asked them were they on drugs. they all yelled no! we saw this happen. she was dead right there in the stair way. well, there is no evidence of that now the officer said . i would have found traces of blood or something if the body had been moved. they all looked confused. they didn't even know where to start to look for kim. they were out of options. later that evening they decided it would be best if they went their seperate ways for a while. and so they did. without saying a word to one another as they left.

about 6 months later they each recieved a letter, it had no return adress, but it read, "money changes people" and it was signed by kim herself and jasmine.

hope you all enjoyed this blog, catch my next one entitled. "sex gets better with age or does it? comming up soon

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THE FOUR WAY TRIANGLE chapt 6

wendy david and joseph stared frantically at the airplane doorway as the crew and the flight attendants all left the plane. kim was no where to be found. the three wondered what was going on. they automatically felt that kim had ditched them, maybey even sold them out. but it was much worse than that. the three of them booked a hotel room at a local hotel right near the airport. they sat down trying to figure out what the hell had happened. they tried calling kim on her cell phone but the number had been disconnected. david stood up and started pacing the room back and forth. then in an instant he froze looked at wendy and said open the back pack. as wendy opened the back pack their mouths dropped. the money was gone, all of it, over 2 milllion dollars gone. but what was left in it was much much worse. it was a gun with blood on it. it was the murder weapon that was used to kill jasmine.

it became apparent that this was a set up from the beginning. the tall guy was just a cover up and a friend of kims whom she had planned this with months ago. in the stair way she pulled out a gun when the lights went off and killed jasmine so that the other three would have to take the fall before they could actually split the money. but where did the money come from well, the money had come from inside the volt of the bank where they all went to that night to use the atm machine. you see the tall man was nothing more than a janitor who worked there. he stole the money and had got a cut out of it before hand and once he was gone his job was never to be seen again. but why jasmine why was she murdered. joseph never knew about the secret crush that kim had on him and it broke her heart to find that he was deeply in love with another woman. she became obsessive with him which led to rage and poor jasmine was in the wrong place at the wrong time. now the problem had took a turn for the worse. they needed to find kim and fast, and they still had to worry about the police tracking them for the murder of jasmine. all of this ran through their minds as they stood there motionless. the hunt for kim was on and they were running out of time , the more time went by the further kim could go and not be found.

next chapter people

THE FOUR WAY TRIANGLE chapt 5

sometimes when you think all of the answers are right there in front of you, they are not. sometimes what appears to be the obvious, ends up being the furthest from the truth and reality. stay with me as the adventure gets even deeper and rage and envy take over what bonded four life long friends together in the first place. trust.

they didn't know what to do, they all stood there speechless. wondering how they got themselves into this mess in the first place. but this they knew for sure. they had alot of money that didn't belong to them and there was a dead body in the stairwell. somebody was gonna have to explain all of this to the police. but none of them wanted to. david pulled everyone together and said "listen we have to get out of here, we have to get out of here now, and i don't think we can ever come back, because if we do they're going to throw us all in jail for theft and murder. but who murdered this girl jasmine none of them had a gun. they all just came together one night to go out and have dinner, they weren't criminals. wendy and kim, nodded and agreed. joseph who was speechless and said nothing as tears flowed downed his face. "ok first we need to get our passports, there is enough money here for us to leave the country and never come back and start a new life. no one can trace this murder back to any of us if we are careful", said david. they all agreed. so they made a plan to each go home grab only what they could carry , grab their passports and book a flight to amsterdamn . this way they could get away from everything and no one would be able to question them. it seemed like a well thought out plan. but was it really. what were they going to tell their parents and friends. what about there jobs and how were they going to just up and leave without any notice. but this was something they had to do. although none of them were guilty of anything somebody was going to take the fall for this and they were going to fall hard.

they decided to meet at the starbucks at philidelphia international airport. as they met they agreed to put the money in one carry on bag so that the less luggage they carried the less obvious it would be for someone to think that they were hiding something. they decided to buy their plane tickets at the counter and pay cash this way no one could trace any type of credit card transactions. everything seemed set. wendy had the carry on bag as she was the first to board the plane joseph and david followed as kim was dragging behind. they each had different seating assignment so that they wouldn't all be seen talking about anything together. as the plane took off, all you heard was silence, no one said a word. 6 hours later the flight landed in amsterdam. wendy, david, and joseph waited for kim to exit the plane , 10 minutes went by. as all the passengers exited the plane there was no sign of kim.

THE FOUR WAY TRIANGLE chapt 4

the lights had slowly come back on and although it was still dim. the four friends were covered in blood and right there in a pool of blood laid an individual faced down. all four friends looked at one another with fear in their eyes. they were all ok, and assumed that the person who was shot was the guy who had dropped the bag in the first place. "its him"! joesph said i know it. he knew he dropped the money and he was comming back for it, he must have follwed us here. wendy tried to calm everyone down. we can't be sure who it is unless we turn the body over and look at the face. everyone backed away and yelled no way i'm doing that, no not me. everyone was scared no one wanted to even come close to this person after everything that had just happened. wendy took a few steps forward. kneeled down and began to turn the body over.

as they all began to look at the face, they realized that this wasn't the man that had dropped the bag, as a matter of fact this wasn't a man at all. it was a woman. a woman that none of them knew or recognized. they all looked confused. everyone except joseph. who stood frozen as ice. he backed away and started crying. the other three looked at him to try to calm him down. suddenly he yelled JASMINE! JASMINE wake up! but jasmine couldn't wake up. jasmine wasn't asleep. jasmine was shot and killed right there in that hallway. the others looked at him and asked how he knew this woman. then it came to light. jasmine was joesph's new girlfriend but because the four friends hadn't seen eachother in months , they never knew anything about her. "i don't understand" cried joseph."what was she doing here". and everyone began to cry but within seconds they stopped. right there lying next to her was a gun. could jasmine have been the one running up the stairway to hurt them. it couldn't be. this was joseph's girl friend. they loved one another and she would never hurt him. but this was strange. standing in this stairway were four life long friends, a dead girlfriend and no one seemed to know who shot her. there was no body else to be found and the gun wasn't pointed towards her body so it wasn't suicide. someone had shot her. but who. they all looked around still thinking that the tall man had come back for them and his money. but he was no where to be found. if the stranger that dropped the back pack didn't kill jasmine then who did?

next chapter ha ha your gonna love this twist

THE FOUR WAY TRIANGLE chapt 3

they all looked at eachother and started to argue. here they were with over 2 million dollars at there disposal and they couldn't agree on what to do. it seemed to be very simple right. turn the money over to the police and just walk away. the money wasn't theirs to begin with. they all knew the difference between right and wrong. but had they gone too far in taking it.

joseph spoke up,"listen guys, i know we should take this money to the police, but no one was there when the guy dropped the bag, no one even saw it we could take this money split it up walk away with over 700,000 a piece and no one would ever know". they all thought about it for a second. on the surface the idea sounded great. but was it really. they all sat around discussing their options but the more they discussed it the less they talked about turning the money over to the police. finally after a few hours of talking they all decided that it would be best to keep it and not say a word. they felt that this was a chance of a life time.

so they split the money up four ways each pocketing over 700,000. they didn't want to walk the streets with it so they decided to keep the money at davids apartment until they could decide their next move. they decided then to celebrate. they headed back out the door to go to chase 27. as they entered the stairway of davids apartment building the lights in the stairway started to flicker. then in an instant the lights went out, it was completely dark in the stairway. as they guided themselves along the rail down the steps they heard footsteps comming up the stairs towards them.. it was pitch black they couldn't see anything. the footsteps became louder as if the person was running towards them and all of a sudden , someone started to grab at them. a struggle began and within minutes all you heard was a louds bang. it was a gun shot. they all froze. one of them had just been shot. it was pitch black. they started screaming help help!

a few seconds later the back up generator lights came on, there was blood everywhere, kim looked to the ground and started screaming he" shot oh my god he's dead you killed him! as the lights came back on right there in the stair way , not moving , not breathing laying in a pool of blood was ......

now if i told you who got killed you wouldn't read the next chapter ha ha, chapter 4 comming soon people don't you just love when i write like that

THE FOUR WAY TRIANGLE chapt 2

as all four friends turned the corner what happened next would change the course of their lives forever.the bank sat only a few blocks away from the corner. because it sat inside of an office building foyer they all decided to go inside to keep eachother company. as they approached the steps a tall man around 6'6" ran passed them almost knocking kim to the ground as the two of them collided, he dropped a black backpack. but he didn't look back he just kept running full speed. as the other three helped kim to her feet they noticed the bag on the ground. they all yelled " hey you mister you dropped your bag". but he never looked back and just kept running as all of them looked at eachother. but none of them wanted to say what they all were thinking. then all of a sudden wendy, who had always been known as the more out going individual of the group wispered lets take it to davids apartment and look to see what is inside of it. they all began to argue with one another. it would be easier to just take it to the police they argued back and forth but curiosity killed the cat and they decided to take a look inside. so they took the bag and walked quietly back to davids apartment which was only a few blocks away. they were silent the whole time neither of them spoke a word. once they arrived up to davids place kim snatched the bag and immediately opened it to see what was inside. as they all looked in curiosity, what they saw blew their minds. as kim turned the bag upside down , out came what appeared to be hundreds of thousands of dollars. wow they all screamed. they didn't know what to do. their jaws dropped because none of them had actually seen that kind of money before. and this was right in their possession just theirs for the taking. they all immmediately started counting the money and to their surprise it wasn't a few hundred thousand dollars it was over 2 million dollars. they couldn't believe it. they all stepped away from the money and started to panic, "what should we do wendy yelled "

and that my friends is the question that started it all. next chapter people

"THE FOUR WAY TRIANGLE" chapt 1

what is a friend, really? someone you can depend on, someone who always has your back someone who will never let you down and will support you through anything. and most of all a friend is someone you can trust. someone who you tell your deepest thoughts and secrets too, someone that you feel connected to totally. but friendships are tested aren't they. some pass and some fail. but they are indeed tested. what happends when the person you thougt you knew, the person that you though you could trust, the person who you thought you could depend on most was no longer that person. you found that you couldn't trust them and worst of all they knew everything about you and more. this is a story about 4 child hood friends that came up together and went on what appeared to be a simple night out , but something happened that would change their friendships forever and their lives as well. stay tune as i take you on this well thought out plan that fell apart in which everyone points the finger and even somebody dies. your gonna love this one. lets go!

its was about 9pm, everyone was dressed to kill for a nice night out on the town in downtown philidelphia. it had been a long time since joseph,david, wendy and kim hung out. they normally tried to make it a once a month deal. but due to all of them being in their early 20s and leading their own seperate lives, there seem to never be enough time for them to meet up. but this night was in the works for a while now. they were all headed downtown to meet for dinner and then to have drinks at a local pub called CHASE 27. EVERYONE was excited because it had been at least 6 months since they had seen one another. kim and wendy rode together to show off her new porche while david who lived in the downtown area decided to walk , and joseph who lived up in jersey was headed there on the turnpike while talking to his girlfriend via mobile the whole time. this was a night that they all had needed out. they all decided to meet a few blocks away near a child hood resturaunt that they use to go to as kids and teenagers. david was the first to arrive being as though he only lived a few blocks away, and kim, wendy, and joseph arrived a few moments after. they all ran up to eachother and hugged eachother with open arms as they couldn't believe that they hadn't seen eachother in so long. as they headed for the resturaunt joseph wanted to run to the atm machine to get some cash for the night. so they all decided to head to the atm around the corner. as they turned the corner to approach the bank what happend next would change the course of their lives forever.

interested yet,it gets better next chapter people

SOUP FOR 4 " ADD A TABLE SPOON OF FORGIVENESS AND FINALLY THROW ON THE STOVE AND LET SIMMER"

OK YOUR ALL SET YOU PRETTY MUCH HAVE IT ALL READY TO COOK. BUT YOU WANT TO TO ADD ABOUT A TABLE SPOON OF FORGIVNESS. NOW LISTEN PEOPLE. NO ONE IN THIS WORLD IS PERFECT. YOU DON'T HAVE THE PERFECT MARRIAGE OR HUSBAND OR WIFE, OR THAT GREAT PERSON WHO NEVER DOES ANYTHING WRONG. WE ALL MAKE MISTAKES MAINLY BECAUSE WE NEVER STOP LEARNING FROM ONE ANOTHER. AND WHEN YOU MAKE THESE MISTAKES OWN UP TO THEM, WORK TOGETHER SO THAT YOU CAN BOTH OVER COME THESE MISTAKES. LEARN TO NOT ONLY FORGIVE ONE ANOTHER BUT BE ABLE TO DISCUSS IT AND MOVE PASSED IT. YOU HAVE TO LOOK FORWARD AT ALL TIMES. AS EACH DAY CHANGES SO DO YOU. AND LAST OF ALL THROW ON THE STOVE AND LET SIMMER. THIS RECIPE IS GOOD AND HEALTHY AND YOU DON'T WANT TO OVER COOK IT, LET IT SIMMER. FEEL FREE TO ADD OTHER INGREDIENTS AS YOU TASTE TEST IT AND REMEMBER THERE IS NEVER ENOUGH INGREDIENTS THAT YOU CAN ADD TO HAVE A HEALTHY MARRIAGE, THE MORE THE BETTER.

OK WANT TO THANK EVERYONE FOR CHECKING OUT MY SOUP FOR 4. STAY TUNE FOR MY NEXT BLOG "THE 4 WAY TRIANGLE" AS I TAKE YOU ON A JOURNEY OF FOUR FRIENDS THAT TRY TO SURVIVE A SCANDLE OF MONEY AND MURDER, QUESTION IS WHO DID IT? HMM. THATS A GOOD QUESTION THATS A VERY GOOD QUESTION

SOUP FOR 4 "ADD 1 CUP OF SPICY SEX"

OK BLEND IN 1 CUP OF SPICY SEX NEXT. YOU GOTTA ADD THIS BECAUSE WITH EVERY GOOD RELATIONSHIP COMES GREAT SEX. AND WE'RE TALKING GREAT SEX. SEX GOTTA BE LIKE WHAMMM! Now this depends on your partner, but when you are in love , you should be able to explore different boundries that neither of you had ever experienced. you should be this comfortable with your spouse. you see sex is one of the major factors in the recipe, without it, it almost taste bland. you gotta spice it up. do more than just the doggy style and lay on your back and its over. find your spouses spot to make them tingle, to make their toes curl. find that inner sensitivity arousal that makes them just want to yell from the mountain tops but without the york peppermint patty. and dress for the occasion. try to wear things that excite you both. you want the sex to be so damn good that your feeling it the next day. you want to wakeup and give yourself a pat on the back and say dayum we rocked the boat and knocked it out of the park last night baby. yep. so definitely blend this in. ok lets tie the recipe together