as teen ager sex excites you, its something new and fresh and all the other kids were doing it. thats what drew you to it. you felt left out if you didn't participate and of course you dreaded being called that aweful word. "THE VIRGIN". i remember that one. it seemed like if you were one back in the days it was like you were some type of disease or something. little did i know that mostly everyone was back then. sure you had a few that weren't but for the most part the only thing they were hittin were their own bed sheets. i can laugh about it now. but back then it was scary wasn't it. it was exciting to get your first sexual encounter. you really didn't know what the hell you were doing but the more times you did the better you were at it. now way lets be honest. some of you were bad then and your really bad now. but for the most part, sex was good , it was fun. but as we got older sex became more serious. you became more concerned about your sexual partners as well as who they had been with. you certainly didn't want to have any kids, so the condom was always a must, but really was it. most of you did the whole pull out method didn't you. don't deny it.
we went from teenagers that were hot and frisky to young adults that had finally got our right to have a drink legally, which led to more sex. and not always good sex either, but sex never the less. and this is where you found the difference between good sex and bad sex. when the sex was good, you walked away with a smile on your face. but when it was bad, you looked worse than that donkey from winnie the poo. but still sex excited you didn't it.
all of this lead you up to be a full fledged adult with a sexual history some longer than others , which brings me to my most current recent thoughts. does sex get better with age. well in my opinion it does and i'm going there people so if your not ready for this content, i suggest you cuddle up with a nice history book on how to make egg plant.
ok here we go
first of all lets all be honest, good sex depends on the partner that your with. not all sex is the same. everyone has had that bad sexual partner that just wasn't good in bed and you wanted to tell them but you didn't want to hurt their feelings so you just never called them again. its sad too, because you go through everything in the worlfd to finally get some and when you do, its freakin horrible. she didn't smell good, he was to small, he couldn't last five minutes, she tightened up like a hoover vacum cleaner, he wouldn't go down on you, you wouldn't go down on him, which by the way should be part of the freakin application process but we will get into that later. i myself believe it or not have had bad sex. no honestly it wasn't on my end. but the girl was just horrible. i mean she was like a dusty book you just couldn't open. i couldn't believe it because i would have thought that a girl that looked that beautiful, would be good in bed. boy was i wrong. first of all she smelled good up top but not down the bottom talk about mismatch. she certainly didn't know her way around the bedroom and hell she didn't know her way around the bathroom. and it was like going to school. ok step one first get undressed. unfuckinbelievable. and i know we've all been there. and then of course you had the sexual encounter where the girl or guy who talked a good game but when it came down to it they were as lost as the network series. they really didn't know what they were doing. and this completely sucks in my opinion but at the same time this was the growing process of learning about sex. you learned through the years what turned you on and what didn't. this was important for all of our sexual development and i'll explain why next chapter as we look into how we evolved with sex. what made it better. and of course how the relationship makes it all worth it.
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