SEX GETS BETTER WITH AGE chapt 3

now before we move on, i gotta say this man because its the right thing to do. as good as sex feels, please if you are having sex with an unknown partner or your not in a relationship or committed or even if your not sure you want kids, please use a condom. yes i know i sound like a broken record. but you gotta pay attention to this. when having sex many men start out with the condom on. now sometimes these condoms are hella cheap. so damn cheap that they probably got them at barneys corner store where they carry milk, eggs, candy and oh yeah condoms. now these condoms are known to break. now ladies if your not sure when a condom breaks. just look at his face. he is into it , but not really, you are pretty much making all the noises at that point but once that condom tears and he feels just a little sensation, oh he starts purring like a cat, before you know it, he is making more noise than you, don't be mistaken your good but your not that damn good, not with a condom on. he felt you without the condom and then it was on from there. also beware of the pull out pull off method. this is when a guy pulls out pulls the condom off and says i just can't take this anymore "i'm going in!!!!" and so he does. the sex was better wasn't it, but was it worth it. i can tell you from experience that condoms suck! you can't feel a damn thing with them on. and i have tried them all. but it was a must. i was determined to wear it. now that i'm married of course i just depend on the donte method! ha ha i'll never tell.

ok so please wrap it up, seal it up, and put it away because as good as the sex may be, it certainly can have lots of bad consequences along with it, such as unwanted pregancies, which means dead beat baby fathers and mothers. aids which means odds are you won't live long enough to get child support from these dead beat baby mothers and fathers. but once you find that special someone, and have that trust within one another the possibilities are limitless.

ok next chapter people as we look into what makes the sex good for a man, you won't wanna miss this one

SEX GETS BETTER WITH AGE chapt 2

we all love sex , we can at least admit that. sex can be good it can be beautiful and when the two of you are in the moment it can be the most thrilling ride of your life. but why does this thrilling ride become better with age. well think about this as a teen you had sex to get it done and get it over with before you got caught. that was everyones nightmare, getting caught. and we've all been there. it was like being in that movie where they sat you in that chair, shined that bright white light on you and then proceeded to ask you questions like. DONTE WHAT THE HELL WERE YOU THINKING? wait i went to far on that one. but you all get my drift. sex back then was good but it just wasn't great, not until you learned the craft and instead of trying to hurry up you were trying to slow down and of course learn what the hell you were doing along the way. i remember this guy telling me that he caught a cramp having sex and had to stop on account of the pain. i was like what a rookie, dude should have done some stretches first. once your in, your in. the worse thing in the world is to cut a sexual experience short. you want to explore every inch of your partners body. you want to taste everything. you want to be able to give oral sex without losing your breath and going into a coma. you want to take your time and find the spot that makes your partner say your name in russian, french, and italian, plus resite the national anthem backwards. you want to explore sexual positions that you never tried before, not just the normal, i'm on top , she's on top, doggy style i'm done. you gotta be creative. thats what makes sex beautiful and that my friends comes with experience and age. as you get older, you learn more about sex. what turns you on. you learn about passion and you also learn that outside of sex is love. that love for your significant other is what helps make the sex great. i mean come on anyone can have an orgasim in 5 minutes. although i wouldn't reccomend it. I think its crazy to go in not knowing what your doing. a good friend once told me that when everything is clicking on all cylinders, the sex will be the best you ever had. but when you have problems that are unresolved the sex is terrible. question is which side of the fence do you want to be on.

SEX GETS BETTER WITH AGE OR DOES IT chapt 1

as teen ager sex excites you, its something new and fresh and all the other kids were doing it. thats what drew you to it. you felt left out if you didn't participate and of course you dreaded being called that aweful word. "THE VIRGIN". i remember that one. it seemed like if you were one back in the days it was like you were some type of disease or something. little did i know that mostly everyone was back then. sure you had a few that weren't but for the most part the only thing they were hittin were their own bed sheets. i can laugh about it now. but back then it was scary wasn't it. it was exciting to get your first sexual encounter. you really didn't know what the hell you were doing but the more times you did the better you were at it. now way lets be honest. some of you were bad then and your really bad now. but for the most part, sex was good , it was fun. but as we got older sex became more serious. you became more concerned about your sexual partners as well as who they had been with. you certainly didn't want to have any kids, so the condom was always a must, but really was it. most of you did the whole pull out method didn't you. don't deny it.

we went from teenagers that were hot and frisky to young adults that had finally got our right to have a drink legally, which led to more sex. and not always good sex either, but sex never the less. and this is where you found the difference between good sex and bad sex. when the sex was good, you walked away with a smile on your face. but when it was bad, you looked worse than that donkey from winnie the poo. but still sex excited you didn't it.

all of this lead you up to be a full fledged adult with a sexual history some longer than others , which brings me to my most current recent thoughts. does sex get better with age. well in my opinion it does and i'm going there people so if your not ready for this content, i suggest you cuddle up with a nice history book on how to make egg plant.

ok here we go

first of all lets all be honest, good sex depends on the partner that your with. not all sex is the same. everyone has had that bad sexual partner that just wasn't good in bed and you wanted to tell them but you didn't want to hurt their feelings so you just never called them again. its sad too, because you go through everything in the worlfd to finally get some and when you do, its freakin horrible. she didn't smell good, he was to small, he couldn't last five minutes, she tightened up like a hoover vacum cleaner, he wouldn't go down on you, you wouldn't go down on him, which by the way should be part of the freakin application process but we will get into that later. i myself believe it or not have had bad sex. no honestly it wasn't on my end. but the girl was just horrible. i mean she was like a dusty book you just couldn't open. i couldn't believe it because i would have thought that a girl that looked that beautiful, would be good in bed. boy was i wrong. first of all she smelled good up top but not down the bottom talk about mismatch. she certainly didn't know her way around the bedroom and hell she didn't know her way around the bathroom. and it was like going to school. ok step one first get undressed. unfuckinbelievable. and i know we've all been there. and then of course you had the sexual encounter where the girl or guy who talked a good game but when it came down to it they were as lost as the network series. they really didn't know what they were doing. and this completely sucks in my opinion but at the same time this was the growing process of learning about sex. you learned through the years what turned you on and what didn't. this was important for all of our sexual development and i'll explain why next chapter as we look into how we evolved with sex. what made it better. and of course how the relationship makes it all worth it.

THE FOUR WAY TRIANGLE chapt 7

so there they were child hood friends staring adversity in the face. in a serious situation in which you thought that maybey the four of them could have figured a way out. greed took over and now you had one go astray. why was this , what made kim do such terrible things to her friends that she had known just as long as her own family.

now they were really worried. not only did kim run with all the money but she also placed the gun with them so that they would appear guilty. they had no clue on where to start but they knew that the resources they needed, they couldn't find in the netherlands. they had to go back home. and they were afraid of this because what if someone had seen them, what if someone had told. by now it had been 24 hours sense the murder, it was only a matter of time before someone found jasmine in the stairwell. they all agreed that the best thing to do at this point was to return to the united states, and tell the police what happened. they knew what the risks were but at this point they knew that kim was behind everything so they decided to take their chances.

they took the first flight out and landed at philidelphia international aiprort around 6pm. they went directly to the police station near the downtown area. they all held hands as they entered the police station, and they sat down with a detective who and began to tell what happened. as they told the series of events, the detective interrupted them and said that there had been no report of anytype of crime in that area over the past 48 hours. "but this doesn't make sense" said david we were there we saw it all happen. the detective said ok, well lets go back to the stairwell and see what we find. as they arrived at the stairwell, they found that it was clean. there was no blood, no body, and no jasmine. they couldn't undertstand, was this a bad dream! the police officer then escorted them out of the building and asked them were they on drugs. they all yelled no! we saw this happen. she was dead right there in the stair way. well, there is no evidence of that now the officer said . i would have found traces of blood or something if the body had been moved. they all looked confused. they didn't even know where to start to look for kim. they were out of options. later that evening they decided it would be best if they went their seperate ways for a while. and so they did. without saying a word to one another as they left.

about 6 months later they each recieved a letter, it had no return adress, but it read, "money changes people" and it was signed by kim herself and jasmine.

hope you all enjoyed this blog, catch my next one entitled. "sex gets better with age or does it? comming up soon

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THE FOUR WAY TRIANGLE chapt 6

wendy david and joseph stared frantically at the airplane doorway as the crew and the flight attendants all left the plane. kim was no where to be found. the three wondered what was going on. they automatically felt that kim had ditched them, maybey even sold them out. but it was much worse than that. the three of them booked a hotel room at a local hotel right near the airport. they sat down trying to figure out what the hell had happened. they tried calling kim on her cell phone but the number had been disconnected. david stood up and started pacing the room back and forth. then in an instant he froze looked at wendy and said open the back pack. as wendy opened the back pack their mouths dropped. the money was gone, all of it, over 2 milllion dollars gone. but what was left in it was much much worse. it was a gun with blood on it. it was the murder weapon that was used to kill jasmine.

it became apparent that this was a set up from the beginning. the tall guy was just a cover up and a friend of kims whom she had planned this with months ago. in the stair way she pulled out a gun when the lights went off and killed jasmine so that the other three would have to take the fall before they could actually split the money. but where did the money come from well, the money had come from inside the volt of the bank where they all went to that night to use the atm machine. you see the tall man was nothing more than a janitor who worked there. he stole the money and had got a cut out of it before hand and once he was gone his job was never to be seen again. but why jasmine why was she murdered. joseph never knew about the secret crush that kim had on him and it broke her heart to find that he was deeply in love with another woman. she became obsessive with him which led to rage and poor jasmine was in the wrong place at the wrong time. now the problem had took a turn for the worse. they needed to find kim and fast, and they still had to worry about the police tracking them for the murder of jasmine. all of this ran through their minds as they stood there motionless. the hunt for kim was on and they were running out of time , the more time went by the further kim could go and not be found.

next chapter people

THE FOUR WAY TRIANGLE chapt 5

sometimes when you think all of the answers are right there in front of you, they are not. sometimes what appears to be the obvious, ends up being the furthest from the truth and reality. stay with me as the adventure gets even deeper and rage and envy take over what bonded four life long friends together in the first place. trust.

they didn't know what to do, they all stood there speechless. wondering how they got themselves into this mess in the first place. but this they knew for sure. they had alot of money that didn't belong to them and there was a dead body in the stairwell. somebody was gonna have to explain all of this to the police. but none of them wanted to. david pulled everyone together and said "listen we have to get out of here, we have to get out of here now, and i don't think we can ever come back, because if we do they're going to throw us all in jail for theft and murder. but who murdered this girl jasmine none of them had a gun. they all just came together one night to go out and have dinner, they weren't criminals. wendy and kim, nodded and agreed. joseph who was speechless and said nothing as tears flowed downed his face. "ok first we need to get our passports, there is enough money here for us to leave the country and never come back and start a new life. no one can trace this murder back to any of us if we are careful", said david. they all agreed. so they made a plan to each go home grab only what they could carry , grab their passports and book a flight to amsterdamn . this way they could get away from everything and no one would be able to question them. it seemed like a well thought out plan. but was it really. what were they going to tell their parents and friends. what about there jobs and how were they going to just up and leave without any notice. but this was something they had to do. although none of them were guilty of anything somebody was going to take the fall for this and they were going to fall hard.

they decided to meet at the starbucks at philidelphia international airport. as they met they agreed to put the money in one carry on bag so that the less luggage they carried the less obvious it would be for someone to think that they were hiding something. they decided to buy their plane tickets at the counter and pay cash this way no one could trace any type of credit card transactions. everything seemed set. wendy had the carry on bag as she was the first to board the plane joseph and david followed as kim was dragging behind. they each had different seating assignment so that they wouldn't all be seen talking about anything together. as the plane took off, all you heard was silence, no one said a word. 6 hours later the flight landed in amsterdam. wendy, david, and joseph waited for kim to exit the plane , 10 minutes went by. as all the passengers exited the plane there was no sign of kim.

THE FOUR WAY TRIANGLE chapt 4

the lights had slowly come back on and although it was still dim. the four friends were covered in blood and right there in a pool of blood laid an individual faced down. all four friends looked at one another with fear in their eyes. they were all ok, and assumed that the person who was shot was the guy who had dropped the bag in the first place. "its him"! joesph said i know it. he knew he dropped the money and he was comming back for it, he must have follwed us here. wendy tried to calm everyone down. we can't be sure who it is unless we turn the body over and look at the face. everyone backed away and yelled no way i'm doing that, no not me. everyone was scared no one wanted to even come close to this person after everything that had just happened. wendy took a few steps forward. kneeled down and began to turn the body over.

as they all began to look at the face, they realized that this wasn't the man that had dropped the bag, as a matter of fact this wasn't a man at all. it was a woman. a woman that none of them knew or recognized. they all looked confused. everyone except joseph. who stood frozen as ice. he backed away and started crying. the other three looked at him to try to calm him down. suddenly he yelled JASMINE! JASMINE wake up! but jasmine couldn't wake up. jasmine wasn't asleep. jasmine was shot and killed right there in that hallway. the others looked at him and asked how he knew this woman. then it came to light. jasmine was joesph's new girlfriend but because the four friends hadn't seen eachother in months , they never knew anything about her. "i don't understand" cried joseph."what was she doing here". and everyone began to cry but within seconds they stopped. right there lying next to her was a gun. could jasmine have been the one running up the stairway to hurt them. it couldn't be. this was joseph's girl friend. they loved one another and she would never hurt him. but this was strange. standing in this stairway were four life long friends, a dead girlfriend and no one seemed to know who shot her. there was no body else to be found and the gun wasn't pointed towards her body so it wasn't suicide. someone had shot her. but who. they all looked around still thinking that the tall man had come back for them and his money. but he was no where to be found. if the stranger that dropped the back pack didn't kill jasmine then who did?

next chapter ha ha your gonna love this twist