DOES A ONE NIGHT STAND CHNAGE YOUR VIEW OF A POSSIBLE RELATIONSHIP WITH AN INDIVIDUAL CHAPT 1

OK SO I WAS LISTENING TO ONE OF MY FAVORITE SHOWS ON SIRUS RADIO. ITS CALLED COCKTAILS WITH PATRICK AND THEY BROUGHT UP AN INTERESTING TOPIC. AND I REALLY HAD TO THINK BACK ON THIS WONDERING IF A ONE NIGHT STAND CHANGED MY PERCEPTION OF A PERSON. AND I GOTTA SAY IT DID AND IT DIDN'T. I WAS ON BOTH SIDES OF THE FENCE ON THIS ONE BECAUSE BACK WHEN I WAS SINGLE IT WASN'T LIKE SEX WAS JUST KNOCKING AT THE DOOR OR ANYTHING. I MEAN LETS BE HONEST. WE ALL HAVE THOSE DAYS WHERE WE ARE EXTREMELY HORNY. AND I MEAN THATS WHAT A ONE NIGHT STAND CAN DO FOR YOU. NOW IT ALSO DEPENDS ON THE PERSON THAT YOUR HAVING THE ONE NIGHT STAND WITH. IF YOUR FALLING FOR A PERSON THAT YOU ARE DATING YOU GOTTA HOLD BACK ON THE SEX A BIT. THATS RIGHT FELLAS IF YOU HAVE BLUE BALLS, A FEW MORE WEEKS OR MONTHS WON'T MAKE THAT MUCH OF A DIFFERENCE NOW WILL IT. I THINK IT CAN BE REALLY DIFFICULT TO HAVE A ONE NIGHT STAND WITH SOMEONE AND CONSIDER THEM A POTENTIAL BOY/GIRL FRIEND. BUT THEN THEY COULD BE THINKING THE SAME THING ABOUT YOU AS WELL. I THINK IT SORT OF GOES ALONG WITH THAT WHOLE THEORY SOMETIMES SEX IS JUST SEX AND YOU SHOULD LEAVE IT AT THAT. NOW HOPEFULLY THE SEX IS GOOD SEX. BUT STILL THATS ALL IT WAS. BOTH MEN AND WOMEN HAVE HAD CERTAIN INSTANCES WHERE THATS ALL IT WAS TO THEM. YOU WENT IN, FUCKED YOUR BRAINS OUT AND AT THE END OF THE NIGHT THERE WASN'T MUCH LEFT TO SAY. BUT TO LOOK AT THAT PERSON AND SAY HEY I THINK I'M IN LOVE WITH YOU, SCARES THE HELL OUT OF ME.

I THINK SO MANY PEOPLE CONFUSE THE TWO AND I MYSELF HAVE DONE THIS IN THE PAST. SOMETIMES YOU DATE A PERSON AND YOUR PHYSICALLY ATTRACTED TO THEM AND YOU CAN JUST IMAGINE THEM NAKED EVEN IF THEIR STANDING IN FRONT OF YOU WITH A SKI SUIT ON READY TO HIT THE SLOPES. AND ONCE YOU HAVE SEX WITH THEM IT SORT OF RUINS THE MOMENT FOR ANYTHING THAT COULD POSSIBLY GO FURTHER. AND IN THE BACK OF YOUR MIND YOUR THINKING WOW THAT SEX WAS GREAT! BUT I WONDER IF I WAS THE ONLY PERSON THEY HAS SEX WITH THAT QUICK. WELL ODDS ARE YOU AREN'T AND NEXT CHAPTER WE WILL DIG INTO WHY.