TAKING THE LEAD...A MAN'S DANCE TO THE TOP chapt 3

as men , we seem to think that the world revolves around us. now of course it doesn't but even as some commit to marriage and kids they seem to still think that this is possible. and to sum this theory up in a short sentence, its called taking a back seat. yep, just like my home girl rosa parks you gotta take a seat in the back in order to grow as a person. here is the deal. as a man you are suppose and i stress the word suppose to be a good provider for your family. which means believe it or not, you sometimes have to put the things you want personally on hold to make sure that your family is being taken care of. and this is a must when it comes to roles that we as men must assume. this is all part of the growth of becomming a man. learning to make good choices and sacrafices, in other words you have nothing comming so you can forget it! and thats not necessarily a bad thing. now here is the flip side. you have men that will look after themselves first, a girlfriend second , and way down the line they may just look at their own family. and can you blame them, well its a choice, obviously the wrong one but it still is a choice and women that tend to think nothhing of themselves, tend to make these choices very easy for men. its like why get married when i can play house for free. some women give it up so damn quick that their pussy doesn't even get a chance to breath before re-entry. and men find this attractive because their getting sex. nope. its crazy because when all things point in the right direction men seem to get stuck on stupid and go completly the other way. and they call themselves men. hmmm yeah we'll have to see about that, next chapter