TAKING THE LEAD...A MAN'S DANCE TO THE TOP chapt 4

its funny sometimes when i think about when i grew up. i can remember my father never being there, hell i didn't meet the idiot until i was 25, and i probably have been typing this blog for more minutes than i actually saw him. and when i think about that period of my life i start to smile because i have beat the odds, like most men should and can. i didn't need a sorry ass excuse for a man in my life to become one. as a matter of fact his ass is the reason that drove me to be more of a man because i just could never pattern my life after some shit like that. and yes some people are probably saying wow did he just call his father a piece of shit. in case you missed it, here it is again, he was a piece of shit. and not just the solid shit either we're talking the shit that clogs up the toilet. and to see how far i've come from that, makes me wonder why more men won't stand the fuck up and become men. stop making all of these kids if you can't support them, and we're not talking a trip to the barbershop once a month. a guy once complained to me about getting hit up for 400.00 a month for child support. i told this dumb ass that i paid 220.00 a week for daycare for my daughter , plus anything else she needed so your 400.00 isn't shit when it comes to raising a child. yeah i put his ass under the bus, hell i could have done an oil change on his stupid ass. oh and don't you just love the ones who have like 3 kids and all by different women, hell if you were going to do that you mind as well have got them at walmart for a freakin 3 for 1 deal.

being a man is serious business, you have to do it 24 hours a day, no days off, no holidays , no vacations, and no extra pay its the one job that is extrememely challanging but has its benefits along the way and just like the recommeneded daily allowance, its is hella good for you. its important to understand that at some point you must take the lead of your own life before you can lead others. you must first establish yourself before you can give advice. and this is where we get to taking the lead and how we go about doing that as men. comming up next chapter