SOUP FOR 4 " ADD 4 CUPS OF LOVE "

NOW THAT WE'VE ESTABLISHED THE BASICS, ADD 4 CUPS OF LOVE TO THE MIXING BOWL. LOVE IS WHAT YOUR RELATIONSHIP/MARRIAGE RECIPE SHOULD BE BASED ON. SO MANY PEOPLE GO ABOUT THIS WRONG. YOU CAN'T BASE A RELATIONSHIP ON STRICTLY SEX, ALTHOUGH WE ALL CAN AGREE THAT IT CAN FEEL GOOD AS HELL, BUT YOU STILL CAN'T BASE A RELATIONSHIP ON IT. aND YOU CERTAINLY CAN'T BASE IT ON TRYING TO BE HAPPY BY MAKING YOUR SIGNIFICANT OTHER HAPPY. THE PROBLEM WITH THIS IS YOU WILL GET LOST IN THE FOLD. YOU SEE SOMETIMES WE PUT OUR FEELINGS ASIDE JUST SO THAT WE CAN MAKE THE NEXT PERSONS FEELINGS OUR PRIORITY. SuRVEY SAYS ...HELL NO! this is a complete mistake. and believe me i've done this as well. what i had to learn was to first love myself. to love who i am had to come first. if i didn't love me and believe in myself. how was i suppose to share that love with another individual. you can't. you'll end up killing yourself trying to convince yourself that as long as she's happy i'm happy which is bull shit because if you're not happy, then the whole thing is a waste. love is one of those elements that takes two people to make it work while in a relationship. if both individuals aren't on the same page, you'll split quicker than a fedex package from the truck. so yes love one another , continue to fall in love with one another everyday. make it count.