many people look at me sometimes and say you must have the perfect marriage and i always laugh and say no way in hell man. marriage is as hard as anything else you can think of. its a full time job. with no vacations, no sick days , and no nocall/noshows. as a matter of fact its extremely hard. when i first decided i was ready for marriage i knew from the jump that i had to get myself together first. no way was i about to enter a marriage acting as crazy and as wild as i was back then. i can admit that. hell at 35 i think you should be able to. but as life went on for me i had to grow up. i ceratinly couldn't be that guy clubbing and hitting parties every weekend and spending so much damn money on girls who probably didn't give a shit about me. sad thing was i knew all of this. so i went through a dating hell man. but i think i needed to go through that because it taught me what i wanted and what i didn't want out of relationships. you see its easy for someone to fall in love and get married but its harder for someone to stay in love and stay married. so i decided to investigate this whole process and we're gonna do it by making my favorite soup for 4.
ok to start you gotta get a clean surface to work with.
you want to make sure that you are upfront and honest when entering a relationship or marrriage you don't want to spread any germs of any type. you want come clean about everything because what may not matter to you could very well matter to your significant other and you definitely have to respect that. honesty may not always be the best policy but it is a start to a brand new beginning. ok so as you wash your hands with warm water grab a big mixing bowl and we're going in next chapter
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