THE FOCAL POINT chapt 3

other people, wow man. well i guess you can say we need them in our life. but do we really. i mean for all of the havoc and pain in the ass that these people cause the question still remains, do we really need these people in our lives. hmmm. well i guess some individuals can certainly be there, but as for others i wouldn't take their asses to a dog show where they served kibbles and bits on a stick. i mean the nerve of some of our so called friends right. and yes we all have them. first i like to call them the good friends, or the best friends. you know the ones whom you can count on for anything and they will always be there for you. and then you have the fucked up friends. i like to call these individuals the fucked up friends! these are the friends that are not only fucked up but they are fucked up to the highest point of fucktivity and since their lives are fucked up, they now want your life to be fucked up as well. which is basically an illegal action of transfer fuck, which eventually leads to some fucked up shit. and as fucked up as it sounds we still have these people in our lives. but why is the question.
you see when you are focused you tend to not only get your priorities straight but you also chose better friends and company. you chose better people to hang around and to associate yourself with. this is really important because in order to go further in life you can't hang around people that will constantly try to hold you back. and although no one can actually do that realistically, they can still make life very difficult for you. for example. you know that friend that we all have. they're so full of shit that they can fill two hefty bags with it, plant it in a forest and help save our enviornment all at the same time. well anyways these are the individuals who like to pose. thats right pose. they're fakers. not like an orgasim, but more like that guy from phantasim. they never follow through on anything. they'll say they'll meet you somewhere and will never show even if it means your life and then they will have the nerve to call you a week later as if nothing happend. or and i love this type the disrespectful type. you know the type who has nothing but mouth. and they run it all day like an energizer battery and when they say something wrong. they spend half of the day trying to correct themselves and the other half trying to make excuses on how they weren't wrong for what they said in the first place. and then of course we have the type who think they have everything but really have nothing and spend their whole lives trying to pretend. and what for. i mean why try to impress. and all of these characteristics of individuals we know add up to one common denominator. L O S E R! thats right they're losers. so why surround yourself with people like that.
you see the hardest part about staying focused is ridding yourself of people like that who try their hardest to keep you off balance. but still we must stay focused and we must go on. we must look past all of that, and realize that our lives are important too. we are people to and in order to succeed we must take every step carefully and that includes chosing the type of people we surround ourselves with more carefully. and this just doesn't go for friends. this goes for relationships and marriages as well. comming up next chapter!