Saturday, June 6, 2009

IS SEX BETTER BEFORE OR AFTER MARRIAGE chapt 1

sex, we've all been there. we've all had it at some point or another. but through out our relationships on the road to marriage was the sex better before or after we actually got married. funny thing is most individuals will never admit that at one time or another they actually thought about it or even took a step further and fantasized about one of their ex's. you see when you are single sex is more fun than anything. there is nothing like having it any and everywhere. you didn't have to have a bedroom and candles and soft music. it was just more about the thought of actually having sex and being in the in crowd that got most of us excited didn't it. i mean think back to that first time you ever had sex. it probably wasn't that comfortable to begin with but once you got the hang of it, it was on from there. you became addicted in a way . so much that everytime you saw the opposite sex walking down the street the first thing you thought about was having sex with them. and don't try to deny it because we've all been there. i like to look back and call those years the horny as toads years. because back then we weren't concerned, we weren't thinking about anything, we were in fact just horny and horny kicks common sense's ass every time. so sex was more fun back then. the occasional encounter in the front and back set of the car, the back porch, even the bedroom while the parents were out of the house for a while. funny thing is most of us rushed so much to have the sex that we were out of it before we ever started it for fear of getting caught. but still it was fun, and with this fun came feelings. these feelings became love for some but not for all. and thats where sex changes when it comes to marriage. you see relationships tend to have such care free lifestyles that alot of people never think that things are going to change once they get married. but oh how they change. they change drastically even. so much that our once fun and care free lifestyle seems like a distant memory once we take the plunge. and the one question that always remains is was the sex better before or after you got married. well we will look into this deeply people as we dig further into this blog. stay tune for chapter 2 to comming up next!

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