IS SEX BETTER BEFORE OR AFTER MARRIAGE chapt 2

alot of individuals fail to understand how much marriage can change a couple's attraction to one another. and its true. your attraction can either decrease or increase but it will certainly not stay the same. for instance when your dating someone, all you can think about is sex because well for the most part the two of you aren't around eachother a whole lot, so your horny all of the time. but once you get married, the sex expectation goes up. your sex drive goes straight from 2nd to 3rd and this is without even using the clutch. your married now so you expect sex all of the time. but it certainly doesn't end up that way does it. isn't it funny how when your dating you can't wait to get each other out of your clothes. but once your married, you can barely find time to even get in a quickie. whether it be because of work schedules, or kids , or just plain busy, sex almost has to be penciled in and planned. and sometimes that takes the fun out of sex. you see everyone loves the idea of fogging up the bedroom windows spare of the moment. but once your married, for the most part you get so busy trying to balance your life between your spouse and kids and work, that sex tends to get pushed back to the end of the line. and this can drive you up a wall because your horny, you want it, you gotta have it and you can't and this is how sex can become complicated. back when i was single, i had so much time to do what i wanted, when i wanted. but once i got married, that time seem to tick faster than a stop watch. sex became almost get it while you can. whether it was before work or before we were headed out or just a quickie to slow the craving. and it wasn't bad sex at all it was actually great sex, but it wasn't the sex that we all had come accustomed to back when we were dating. so lets just call it different sex. you see when you are married. you have to find the time to have sex and that can be difficult. for a guy it may have to come down to chosing between the steelers kicking the ravens ass or you getting some. for a female it comes down to watching sex in the city or actually having sex in the city in your home of course. and the major perk of sex after marriage is the intensity of it. you see with a boyfriend/girlfriend, you may have love for them but its not the same as looking into your spouses eyes and the two of you bite your bottom lip just so you can hold out the final seconds so that the both of you can climax at the exact same time. and of course nothing beats that naked butt in the moon beam walk afterwards. sex when your married has no boundries, well at least it shouldn't. its the one sexual encounter where anything goes and that my friends you can't get in just a relationship. and we'll get into this more next chapter.